Burned-out and fading away

Category : Life Philosophy and Meaning, Lifestyle, Love A Date Dating Online Dating Relationships

Number of View: 287

communicate what you feel

People don’t notice stress when it occurs. Stress symptoms are often ignored. Laugh, but it is true, you ignore stress, consider it as irrelevant, and don’t still notice when it is already at the stage of being called as chronic stress or burnout. When stress gets you, you slowly fade away!


The best way to counter this is to indulge yourself a little massage or spa treatment. Go to the salon and spend a little of what you earn to keep yourself from becoming emotionally drain. Stress comes with a lot of other diseases. You wouldn’t want to battle your daily stressors and your diseases at the same time.


Relationships can be a cause for stress too if you don’t talk it over. To avoid burnout, always tell your partner what you feel. I appreciate when my special someone tells me how he feels and what he thinks about us. We spend hours discussing a lot of things and then settle on one thing – never give up on us! Lol

There are many solutions to a problem. You don’t have to wait for burnout to obtain the cure. Talk with your partners and meet halfway. If you love each other, you will always find ways to meet with your likes and dislikes. The most important thing is that you communicate what you feel to the one you love. Relationships could be easier when both of you are willing to sacrifice some things to make space for new things both of you can share.

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Love yourself

Category : Life Philosophy and Meaning, Lifestyle, Love A Date Dating Online Dating Relationships

Number of View: 129

long distance relationships - will it last?

Learn to fall in love without forgetting yourself. Loving is dangerous to health if I may say. Falling in love deeply with a guy can make one forget self and just live for the guy. What I mean with this is that women tend to prioritize their boyfriends and put their boyfriends’ needs above them and above all others.


Tsk..tsk… Honestly speaking, I am one of those women! I also put my partner’s needs above mine. This is sweet, this is good, and it helps you keep the relationship but loving too much is dangerous too. You forget yourself! One thing that I can advise for women who loves like me is to keep a little reservation for self.

Try to do the things you like and the things you enjoy doing without your man. Spend a little time to yourself because when you lose your partner and you lose the relationship, it will be hard to pick up the pieces again. I am not telling you to get ready for the worst lol. I am telling you to just keep a little thing and space for your self. Take care!

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Trust him or drop him?

Category : Life Philosophy and Meaning, Lifestyle, Love A Date Dating Online Dating Relationships

Number of View: 179

sweet love...

Trust is very important in relationships. Couples often have petty quarrels because of the lack of it. Trust is given regardless of how you present yourself. Any man or woman can feel if they should trust you or not. Trust is something that you cannot make or unmake because it is how a person looks at you no matter how bad others may talk about you. Your boyfriend may not care what other people tell about you because he trust and love you.


I will love you forever

Building trust takes time especially in long distance relationships. Couples who are dating online takes time to know each other, talk to each other everyday, and share a lot of things in their day-to-day life. Trust is needed for love to fully develop and your relationship to get fully establish. Building relationship takes a lot of commitment and a “just-be-yourself” as easy as that work. If you want to start any relationship right, then do it right the first time.


Approaches in handling and managing relationships come with age and maturity. No mature people who are responsible enough would want to build a relationship that they cannot trust especially if their intention is to look for a partner that they can live with for the rest of their lives. Nobody would want to grow old with someone that they will keep on monitoring for the rest of their lives. Trust is important and if you can’t get yourself to trust your boyfriends or your girlfriends now then I guess you don’t need to continue with the relationship.

Trust is magical and awesome for couples dating online. Trust coupled with love is the perfect ingredient to a lasting relationship. I can’t say you need to do anything to keep it up because you already have it by nature. Change is what breaks relationships at times. Any change you make in your nature and behavior has its own impact on your partner’s feelings and your relationship with him. So I guess you have to be more careful with change rather than trying hard to build up trust.

stay and be with me


What I am trying to tell you is that, with regards to trust, you don’t have to do anything at all. Just be you! Your partner observes and feels how he should deal with the word “trust” and “feelings”. Changes are the ones that will reduce emotional bonding, affection, and love. Change is powerful! Sometimes couples are not aware of it. In relationships, you don’t present yourself superficially. Of course you want your boyfriends to love you as you are. It would be a great feeling to know that your boyfriend won’t just drop you off by the click of a mouse lol. Be you and learn to love again. It is a great feeling to have someone loves you as you are!

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Look of the year beauty contest

Category : Branding Advertising Marketing Neurobranding, Lifestyle, Personal Development and Communication Skills, Product Review, Screenshots Expressions Design Art Photography

Number of View: 141

Confident? Look in the mirror and see that beautiful you again. Twist and turn – show what you got. Join a beauty contest!

Beauty contest like LookOfTheYear is a fascinating effort to discover beauty worldwide. You learn how to project yourself gracefully, walk like a model and smile radiantly as you can. LookOfTheYear is simply designing women to become the best that they can be.


Beauty is how you project yourself in unique grace and confidence. People who want to be beautiful shall do more than just routine spas and makeups. Make the best out of yourselves without losing the essence of what makes you truly unique and attractive – YOU!

Big dreams start from small beginnings. Join this online beauty contest and get the chance of your lifetime to be discovered by agents and model agencies. Widen your options and open endless possibilities for you to reach your dreams.


Dare and join. Got the guts? Give it a go.

You are beautiful no matter what they say. Beauty is a subjective quality. Who knows they are on a hunt for beauties like you to star on that ready to roll movie script or that newly designed gown? Taste and appreciation is never constant but is constantly moving along with its backdrops.

Empower yourself and take one step to achieving your dreams – register at Look of theYear!

Accentuate those curves, enhance your best features and send in your best picture to win that US$10,000 price. Feel beautiful, smile, be confident and radiate your essence, pose and win! Simple and fast, this is an online beauty contest. No hassles just pose and give it a snapshot.

LookOfTheYear is for those who feel young and beautiful. This is all about confidence and you. Let’s talk about confidence and essence… you radiate it and just capture it. Then click… click… and click. Choose your best shot and submit it online.

Submit one head shot and a very catchy profile. Hire a writer for this please. You really need to give it your best shot. Words may weigh as much as that snapshot. Upon submission you will receive your confirmation and is able to see your profile on the LookOfTheYear website. Spread the word and gather votes. Of course you have to promote yourself by giving them the URL of http://www.lookoftheyear.com to find you. Then sit and watch your votes go up. LookOfTheYear online beauty contest, there’s nothing like winning US$10,000 for a snapshot! Take it…. Take it… be the future model of Paris, Milan or New York.

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Photography and the person’s perspective: I see what you see

Category : Life Philosophy and Meaning, Lifestyle, Screenshots Expressions Design Art Photography

Number of View: 159

Photography expresses our emotions. Photography is a reflection of the beauty that we see in something that has no value at all. Take a good look at these rotten woods. Are you wondering how they captivated the attention of the person who had taken this photos? It is a matter of seeing the beauty in your subject and the way you take your shots to make it look and appear more dramatic.


Photography is fascinating for people who can capture some value and meaning out of nothing. It is the way you see life. It is the way your imagination works to add some value and beauty on some things. This is real creativity at work. Working to give life to something that is already failing. See how this tree comes to life from a good perspective. In life, you see your meaning in your own perspective.


The technique is to express your vision with emotions. The outcome could be overwhelming. There is not shortage of subjects. There is not limit on imagination. You only limit yourself to your perspective. Everything is how you see and view the world and give meaning to your subject through your own perspective.

Thank you Anto for your photos.

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You are beautiful

Category : Life Philosophy and Meaning, Lifestyle, Love A Date Dating Online Dating Relationships

Number of View: 211

nice smile


Learn to fall in love without forgetting yourself. Loving is dangerous to health if I may say. Falling in love deeply with a guy can make one forget self and just live for the guy. What I mean with this is that women tend to prioritize their boyfriends and put their boyfriends’ needs above them and above all others.

Tsk..tsk… Honestly speaking, I am one of those women! I also put my partner’s needs above mine. This is sweet, this is good, and it helps you keep the relationship but loving too much is dangerous too. You forget yourself! One thing that I can advise for women who loves like me is to keep a little reservation for self.

Try to do the things you like and the things you enjoy doing without your man. Spend a little time to yourself because when you lose your partner and you lose the relationship, it will be hard to pick up the pieces again. I am not telling you to get ready for the worst lol. I am telling you to just keep a little thing and space for your self.

Cheer up ladies! You are beautiful. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. People perceive things differently regardless of how well you present yourself. So, remember you are beautiful. There is always someone out there for you to love you. You don’t have to exert much effort finding it. It will come.


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Fall in love and do not mess around

Category : Life Philosophy and Meaning, Lifestyle, Love A Date Dating Online Dating Relationships

Number of View: 111

One man, one woman, at a time, focus!!!

Relationships last when both partners are faithful and true to each other. Nothing is constant in this world. There could be many changes during the course of the relationship. People could keep up with each other by trying not to find another relationship. When you find one, try to make the best out of it without messing around otherwise you will end up hopping from one relationship to another. This is a very tiresome task. If you want to be happy, try to be faithful with one partner.


Give your partner your undivided attention and love. When you maintain a lot of dating relationships, you will end up just comparing one from the other without even spending time and effort to develop the relationship. This could be pathetic. You could be very confident you have the world at the tip of your fingertips. Then one day you will find yourself alone and lonely. Go for one partner, one love, and one relationship at a time! That is how it should be… or forevermore…. Loyalty….

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Relationship issues

Category : Life Philosophy and Meaning, Lifestyle, Love A Date Dating Online Dating Relationships

Number of View: 201

Loving is a freeway. You can go a mile or stop midway. The only thing that couples need is the assurance that you both love and care for each other. Relationships are partnerships. It can’t be driven one way. Support and effort should be coming from both partners. If one continues to exist to benefit from the other without returning the care and attention then I guess it would only take a little time for the other partner to realize it is not worth it and just fall out of love soon.


You might not be aware of what you are doing when you take for granted the care and attention given to you by your partner. Expressions are unique for each individual. You should consider yourself lucky if your partner truly care and trust you. Never ever take your partner’s expressions and feelings for granted because they might bump their heads soon and realize you just don’t care at all with how they feel. Try to reciprocate the care and attention if you want to keep the relationship. Value your partners, value their feelings, and keep the relationship! That is the true meaning of relationship partnership.

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Just dance

Category : Life Philosophy and Meaning, Lifestyle, Love A Date Dating Online Dating Relationships

Number of View: 127

let go... be happy

Have fun! Think of nothing else and just have fun!

I notice that people who are worriers facilitate their aging process by incurring more wrinkles thinking of what life would bring. Well, life is full of ups and downs. Find love, hear the music of your heart and just be happy with it!


You can never change the past but you have the chance to change your present to make a better future. Self confidence darlings! I know you can do it and will do it if you are given the chance. The fact is, chances won’t be there at all if you don’t work for it.

I have a friend who does not think of problems at all. He does not worry about anything else but continue to be happy as he goes battling life and whatever comes in his tomorrow. I am not sure what stages of life or situation you are in now. I just want to share with you that worrying much will lead to another worry – your wrinkles and dry skin! So smile and be happy!

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Relationship means partnership

Category : Life Philosophy and Meaning, Lifestyle, Love A Date Dating Online Dating Relationships

Number of View: 198

darling, I am gonna build another house...


People who failed with their relationships will notice one thing. There was only him or her in the relationship. They never shared much about anything. Keeping secrets and not being open with each other will make you do things by yourself. You do not include your partner with your decisions because you do not really consider him as a partner. This would mean two things, you do not want any shared decisions, or you do not trust him at all. Relationships mean partnerships. You do want to spend your golden days with him so start sharing and do things that both of you enjoy. Asking for the opinion of your partner and doing what makes him feel comfortable with the relationship is a sign of love and respect. This I think will keep your relationships stronger each day.

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Forget pride, say sorry if you love her

Category : Life Philosophy and Meaning, Lifestyle, Love A Date Dating Online Dating Relationships

Number of View: 125

Hi, are you okay?

People cry relentlessly in their own secret domains – their rest rooms or their bedrooms! They still love each other but they can’t bring themselves to say “I’m sorry”. Hellooooo…… that is not cool anymore!

I remember when I was caught up in between my pride and my feelings. I always choose my relationship, my man over my pride and myself. I always prioritize my man’s needs before mine and that includes pride.


Many relationships fail and many people suffer because they cannot bring themselves to say sorry. They cannot even bring themselves to negotiate their situations. It is torture to lose the woman you love just because you cannot bring yourself to little minute adjustments.

Why should you make yourself suffer when you can still save your relationship? Understand that both of you were brought from different backgrounds, education, culture, family environment, and economic status. Those things I mention alone are hard to bridge. If you truly love each other, then find ways to meet halfway. Always communicate and talk things out.

The beauty of the relationship comes with the discovery that you can still love your partners amidst everything. Acceptance is very important and that begins with you! Accept that you have your own limitations and faults too. You need to say sorry when you hurt his or her feelings unintentionally.

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Grrr I am jealous

Category : Life Philosophy and Meaning, Lifestyle, Love A Date Dating Online Dating Relationships

Number of View: 123

ugh darling please don't hit me hard

This is not a matter of who is right or wrong. This time it is a matter of what women may feel when they see or hear their partners being closely acquainted with another woman. This could be heartbreaking ugh….


The first thing women do is quarrel their partners. I do not think that quarreling your partners will do you and your relationship any good. The best thing to do is talk it out and know the real score direct from your partner’s mouth and not from hearsay.

Open communication makes any relationship stronger each time you talk about something. Honesty is good when it comes to defining what makes each of you jealous. When you have agreed on something to keep your relationship from breaking then close the issue and never mention it again.

Move on…. You will be nagging him if you always mention something that happened in the past. Keep your relationship, close past issues and work for your future.

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The Man with the mission

Category : Faith and Religion, Life Philosophy and Meaning, Lifestyle

Number of View: 265

spirituality is everything


The Man with the mission has been working on it for the love of mankind. His mission is to direct souls and lead souls to the realm of his Father’s kingdom for eternal happiness. The Man with the mission gathers his sheep and takes care of that sheep because of love. He is weary waiting for that invitation from us so he starts giving us the invitation. And what’s more, suffering is a challenge for people who were given the invitation to experience and endure it. Why I said so? People who came out of the challenge came out to be stronger, mature, patient with all the good virtues in life. Best of all, the challenged man also inherits the wisdom that came from experiencing and enduring the sacrifice and pain of his trials. Inherit is a more appropriate word. Wisdom is already there but it failed to work because there are specific requirements to meet. One is enduring the pain of love, sowing tears in pain, and the sacrifice to continue living with the gift of life God has given us. It works when we overcome all this and we gain the spirituality to see things the way we should all see it, which is in the eyes of compassion and care for humanity. The man with the mission completed his mission here on earth with great compassion. This is the only time I am telling you to be a great copycat of the Man with the mission. Do your day-to-day tasks with great love and compassion and you will see how these special ingredients can make you stronger to fulfill commitments.

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How to flirt

Category : Life Philosophy and Meaning, Lifestyle, Love A Date Dating Online Dating Relationships

Number of View: 142

Love it


Flirting is good if you do it the correct way. First, make sure the person you want to start a relationship does not have any other relationship. Do not attempt to steal hearts because it will hurt the other woman too. There is always someone out there for you. There is no need to steal and hurt other women. Flirting is an art. There is a total mystery in how one could attract and obtain the undivided attention of the other person. Observe some rules to your game and watch this video on how to make the first move.

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Loving you…

Category : Life Philosophy and Meaning, Lifestyle, Love A Date Dating Online Dating Relationships

Number of View: 139

always... forever...

“Darling I never felt like this before in my life. I love you more each day! For sure, I will love and serve you until we grow old and part with our last breath in this world. You know how much I feel for you and that feeling is even growing each day as we talk and share whatever makes us happy or even quarrel at times lol. Do what you have to do even though I do not understand some things. I am confident you will be true to me as I will be true to you. I’m yours forever dear. I love you so much!”


Say, it with words, let your heart out. Let your heart beat and serve your loved one all through your lifetime. It does not matter if you start from scratch. You only have to support each other every step of the way. There could be quarrels, painful quarrels at times. If you truly love each other, you will learn to accept the bad things as well as the good things. For love is not for the good things and fun only. It is all about acceptance, being a part of each other’s lives, and combining efforts to strive to live a better peaceful happy life together. The two of you can live a new life together. Love matters in everything that you do, not money, not appearances, not social status! Love and you will be happy.

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Unconditional love is a rare gift of being

Category : Life Philosophy and Meaning, Lifestyle, Love A Date Dating Online Dating Relationships

Number of View: 126

I love you

People, as we know it, are always in search of something. They seek ways to get what they want and often fail too. The question is, why do relationships fail?


Relationships fail because people only look for what they want. They do not think of what they can give. The law of nature is always giving what you want to receive. If you want to receive back unconditional lasting love then give to the world unconditional lasting love.

When you find someone that, you really want to love and take care for the rest of your life, give him the rare gift of being – unconditional lasting love. There is also a glitch to the system of loving. The person you love may cause you a lot of heartache and may not reciprocate what you give.


Relationships are two way: he gives and he receives as you give and you receive back love. If the system is not satisfied, then stop for a while and think if you are going to pursue with the relationship. I for one thing, will hold on to the relationship if there is a lot of reason to hold on – I love him! But sometimes loving is not enough, you need to be practical and realistic!

Enjoy the moment he is with you and take each day as it comes! He may or may not give more than he is capable of giving and loving. If you truly love him, then love him. If you think you had enough, then gradually drop him!

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The best language of love is caring

Category : Life Philosophy and Meaning, Lifestyle, Love A Date Dating Online Dating Relationships

Number of View: 155

Love me for who I am... what I am... because I am me...




I realized that people may not be able to maintain their relationships if one stops caring. The only way I see that you can sustain a harmonious relationship is to care really on how your partner think and feel. Needs are met at a different level in your relationship. If you love your man and are willing to keep him and your relationship then you need to let go of some of your needs to accommodate his needs.

In a relationship, there is what we call as insensitivity and not keeping the balance of giving and receiving. Men are sometimes sweet but most of the times are what we call as cold and uncaring. It is very difficult to understand them if you really would look into it because they are not as expressive as much as women wants them to be.

So step one

Forget about your needs and accommodate his needs first.

Step two

Stop looking for more expressions because he only can express what he can express. Do not look for more.


If you can live with the first two steps, then you can faithfully do the third step. Love him! Just love him without expecting much in return. Do you think you can live with that? Lol women nowadays are takers too. They want something in return. Of course, who would not want their emotions reciprocated? Nevertheless, in this world there are men who just lack the energy and the expressions to give more of what they have because it is what they are. If you can live with it, then expect that you will be the one adjusting and showing more of the loving expressions than him. Well if you are comfortable with this situation then you will live lol. Happy loving!

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Finding the perfect love

Category : Life Philosophy and Meaning, Lifestyle, Love A Date Dating Online Dating Relationships

Number of View: 253

eye for love

Finding the right man who can offer the perfect love you desire is a myth. In this present world where men and women are looking for the appropriate loving and caring, one may find self in the middle of the crossroad between culture, personal values and modern day terminology called fun or sex. Interracial dating is a good way to discover and be a part of other culture’s romantic world. Men and women, boys and girls, wanting to find their desired marriage material partners come online to meet other people in other countries thousand of miles away.


Many use the Yahoo Messenger chat rooms, MSN chat, and other online dating sites using different names and different countries of origin. No one could ever know the real person you are talking and discussing your feelings unless they come to their minds and reveal who they really are in the real world. If we are going to analyze the behavior, relationships online usually begins with lies – lies on who they are, lies on their person, and lies about themselves! There is only a one in a million probability that you will meet a real nice person who will be frank and honest enough to tell about them.

liar liar


What are the usual reasons about lying? First is safety and security. There are many bad people anywhere in the physical world, more on the virtual world, which is easy to infiltrate if they want to. Second, people go online to look for fun before emotional involvement, which is the normal trend in online dating knowing that they are thousands of miles away. I just hope that those who seek for fun will also go for those who seek the same and not victimized women who are sincere enough to give their hearts and emotions. This trend is quite damaging for the serious and sincere women looking for the right partner to love and live with in the net. Third, many men do not actually believe in online dating and relationships. They are just in the net for the fun and thrill of meeting women and other people, do their natural thing of engaging women to like them, and trick them into believing they actually like them.

virtual date


Many people come to the virtual world because they cannot find what they want in the physical world. The only question that hangs in the air is, “Why do all sorts of superficial acts if you want to make virtual relationships a reality?” Success in any relationships requires time and lots of patience understanding the meanings and context of the words and actions of your online partner. It is not a mere hi and hello then goodbye. Couples need to understand that they need to experience real adjustment online first going to meet in the physical world. And if they do not want to meet in the physical world because they cannot fully trust their online partners or do not believe in the success of any online dating relationships, then tell your partner from the very start of the loving relationship about your concept so she may not expect much from the relationship too.

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Take each day as it comes until love will find you

Category : Life Philosophy and Meaning, Lifestyle, Love A Date Dating Online Dating Relationships

Number of View: 141

Looking for unconditional love


Search and rest your heart for a moment if you still cannot find what you are looking. Wondering if that love will ever come to rescue you from the pits of loneliness and misery, ooohhh!!!! Things do not always work the way you would want it to be. The more you seek for it, the more love will evade you. People do not regard love as the highest emotion that one need to treasure. Modern age man and woman seek love for comfort and convenience like a business transaction. You give me this and I give you this. It truly sounds like a business transaction now.

My rose... sweet love...


Your search for the unconditional love that will last for a lifetime might not come at this time yet. Take each day as it comes until love will find you. Wait for the right moment and do not make any crazy effort facilitating whatever you have with the wrong man. Drawing too much effort to create the kind of love you want may fail and hurt you more than you ever imagine. Face the mirror and see yourself eye to eye. Look at the woman in the mirror and tell her to back off a little and stop looking for that loving anywhere. It will come if it will come.

love me dearly...


The person who is going to love you for who and what you are will come in the right time, at that perfect moment. I am going to tell you a short story. Nine months ago, a man trying to find someone went to Yahoo Messenger for a chat. A woman who was trying to find someone but felt bored from being alone also went to Yahoo Messenger to chat. The man finds the woman and they fell in love. It was a love at first video chat. Funny but the relationship still exist and keep on getting stronger at this time. It was the first online relationship the woman has at Yahoo for many years since she started chatting.

Realize that when a heart beat it will beat for whomever whatever you find at the right moment. Do not get frustrated if you cannot find him yet. He will come when it is time! Just wait and he will come! Wait and that loving will come!

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Love fades in time

Category : Life Philosophy and Meaning, Lifestyle, Love A Date Dating Online Dating Relationships

Number of View: 281

Cry... express... realize... leave... forget.... move on...


Finding a partner is not easy. During the first few months of the relationship, couples will undergo many adjustments to be able to understand and meet each other halfway. Whatever are your problems, do not attempt to insult or ridicule the intellect nor take the feelings of your partner for granted. You may find her successfully adjusting and taking your attitude for the first few months but soon she will realize you are not worth investing the time, the loving, and the caring. No matter how intense the feelings she has for you, it will always fade when left unattended and not reciprocated. Love slowly fades when you do not treat her right. A love that stays forever stays for three reasons – love, respect, and tact! So, treat her right while she is still with you because once she decides to close her doors you will not be able to win her back forever.

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